1. 那些你看起来好像什么都拥有的人，那些你认为他们生活的很开心很自在的人，那些你羡慕的人... 并不是你所想像的那样。你想要他们那般丰富的人生，却未曾想过要先去经历伤痛的挫折；你想要他们那般光鲜的外表，却未曾想过美丽的代价；你想要他们那般自由自在随性的生活，却未曾想过没有保障的未来... 每个人都有自己小小的烦恼，所以不要去比较、不要去抱怨这所谓的“不公平”，这样真的很没意思，他们拥有的未必适合你，而你所拥有的却或许正是他们所渴望的..
2. 总是抱怨外在的一些因素，那么你永远都得不到你想要得那些。你可以把自己的失败归结于没有好的家庭背景，没有好的运气与机会等等，但是你能看到的也就仅仅是这些了。多去想想自己所拥有的，你没有饥寒交迫无家可归，你还有关心你的家人和朋友，这些不仅是只属于你的财富，还是别人都夺不走的财富。所以不要再去抱怨了，你唯一能够抱怨的只有一个人，那就是你自己。
3. 别人有500万，而你的银行卡里只剩5千块... 你应该想想兜里只有5块的人正羡慕着你... 😂 （我真的不是来搞笑的－ －
还 是 听 歌 吧！！！
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So I was sitting there in the bar and this guy comes up to me and he said "My life stinks"
我正坐在酒吧里，这个家伙来到我身边对我说：“我的生活糟透了。”
and I saw his gold credit card and I saw the way he was looking at people across the room and I looked at his face and you know, what a good looking face,
我看到他有金卡，看到他正看着房间里来来往往的人，我看到他的脸，多么好看的面容，
and I just said, "Dude, your perspective on life sucks".
我只是说：“伙计，糟透了的是你对生活的态度。”
He's got looks that books take pages to tell
他看起来像小说里男主角一样帅气
He's got a face to make you fall on your knees
他的面容让你一见倾心
He's got money in the bank to thank and I guess
他银行里的存款多到不行
You could think he's livin' at ease
我想，你会认为他的生活安逸舒适
Like lovers of the good book show -- what's the matter
像小说里的恋人——怎么了
When you're certain there is so much more -- what's the matter
你肯定还不止这些——怎么了
While you're wondering what the hell to be
当你在想这特么到底怎么了
Are you wishing you were ugly like me?
是说你希望长的像我一样丑么？
Blame it on the girls who know what to do
怪那些知道自己该怎么做的女孩吧
Blame it on the boys who keep hitting on you
怪那些一直挑逗你的男孩吧
Blame it on your mother for the things she said
怪你妈说的那些话吧
Blame it on your father but you know he's dead
怪你爸吧，虽然你知道他早就去世
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
Life could be simple but you never fail
生活本可以很简单
To complicate it every single time
但你每次都能把事情搞复杂
You could have children and a wife, a perfect little life
你本可以有妻儿，过上完美的小生活
But you blow it on a bottle of wine
但都被你当做酒精灌下了肚
Like a baby you're a stubborn child -- what's the matter
你就像个孩子一样顽固——怎么了
Always looking for an axe to grind -- what's the matter
总是有不同的意见（总是想要唱反调）——怎么了
While you're wondering what the hell to do
当你不知道自己特么该干什么的时候
We were wishing we were lucky like you
我们都在祈祷自己也能像你那样幸运
Blame it on the girls who know what to do
怪那些知道自己该怎么做的女孩吧
Blame it on the boys who keep hitting on you
怪那些一直挑逗你的男孩吧
Blame it on your mother for the things she said
怪你妈说的那些话吧
Blame it on your father but you know he's dead
怪你爸吧，虽然你知道他早就去世
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
He's got looks that books take pages to tell
他看起来像小说里男主角一样帅气
He's got a face to make you fall on your knees
他的面容让你一见倾心
He's got money in the bank to thank and I guess
他银行里的存款多到不行
You could think he's livin' at ease
我想，你会认为他的生活安逸舒适
Blame it on the girls who know what to do
怪那些知道自己该怎么做的女孩吧
Blame it on the boys who keep hitting on you
怪那些一直挑逗你的男孩吧
Blame it on your mother for the things she said
怪你妈说的那些话吧
Blame it on your father but you know he's dead
怪你爸吧，虽然你知道他早就去世
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们
Blame it on the girls
怪她们
Blame it on the boys
怪他们